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About India May

Perhaps what you need to know about me, is that I never went searching to become a Funeral Celebrant. Instead, it came to me in a season of deep grief, at the passing of my Grandma.

It was her request for me to lead her service, despite it being my first. At the conclusion of her service I was overwhelmed with this enormous sense of privilege and honour. That despite the tears, I was able to do something meaningful. And so it is for this reason that I became a Funeral Celebrant.


My Role

  • I will meet with you to prepare a personalised and elegant service.

  • We will work together to create a ceremony that depicts the true character of your loved one.

  • I will deliver a meaningful service with confidence, care and sensitivity.


    I am based in the Eastern suburbs of Melbourne, Victoria 

    Contact Number: 0401 206 404

    Email: india@indiamayfuneralcelebrant.com




Testimonials

Thank you India for putting together a wonderful service for Mum. You are very good at what you do and we are all so appreciative of your efforts. It is clear that you have so much heart and soul and this was translated into Mum’s service.
— Jeanette L
India, I just wanted to say thank you so much for officiating my dad’s service. We have received many messages and people telling us that your presence was wonderful. We really appreciate you xo
— Carmen G
Hi India,
I wanted to reach out again and thank you for the beautiful service for my beloved Nana.
She would have loved how simple yet beautiful the service was. A fitting send-off for our Queen. And your outfit - I can hear her commenting on how elegant it was! I honestly think that you were the perfect person to help us say our goodbyes - and my Nana would have adored you.
My Mum felt very supported throughout the planning stages, and I can’t thank you enough for helping make the whole process easy on her. Your guidance and expertise took away a great deal of stress for her. Thank you again and warmest wishes.
— Megan H
Thank you so much India for the beautiful service you conducted for our loved Mum.
From the Zoom meeting we had with you days prior in preparing mum’s service, to the dignified, caring and thoughtful words you included into the service, made our send off for mum so personal and truly a celebration of mum’s wonderful 93 years. We have had so many comments on how beautiful the service was. So thank you for making such a difficult day one of treasured memories and reflection.
— C, R, & K xx
We wish to pass on our deep thanks to India May, Funeral Celebrant. Working with India really helped to bring structure to Dad’s service. At such a challenging time for us as a family, India’s ability to listen and translate our thoughts and memories was amazing.

She put them together in a meaningful way that described our father really well. Her kindness, warmth and commitment to creating the best possible presentation of Dad (and for us) helped us to focus on what we wanted to say.

She is a great communicator, especially at a time when delicacy and sensitivity to the situation are required. A number of friends and family who attended Dad’s service seemed to appreciate it, saying it was a beautiful service and a lovely tribute.
— D Sparkes
I was determined to watch again the funeral service for M before emailing you – I am glad I did. Viewing this allowed me to pick up little nuances I had missed during the service (when I was present) and made me even more appreciative of your contribution. I cannot thank you enough.
India – the one thing which really grabbed me, and I am sure that there was nobody present except the pianist, was when you put out M’s candle. You approached the candle with grace and dignity and the slight genuflection you gave, after the candle was extinguished, was a real demonstration of your sincerity.
India, I thank you and wish you a long and rewarding career as a celebrant.
— Ian G
Thank you so much India for your wonderful work to help us with Mum’s service. A lot of people said that you spoke beautifully and I am very grateful at how it was conducted.
In difficult times your suggestions for people taking flowers and other finer detail was lovely.
— Melissa S
My family would like to thank you for the beautiful service you did celebrating the life of my mum E. You captured her life and personality so well. From the moment you entered the family home and I saw you, it was as if you had been sent by my mum. Your care, compassion, kindness and attention to detail was very special. Thank you so very much India
— Jennifer G
Hi Indi, Thank you so much for your amazing work yesterday. You were just brilliant. You beautifully captured the essence of mum and told her story so well. Your additions and suggestions were so thoughtful and spot on - exactly what was needed. The committal was beautiful and sent her off perfectly.
You made the whole process so comfortable for Kim and me at such a challenging time and your tenderness and sensitivity was so appreciated.
You put a lot of work into making yesterday so special and perfect and for that, we couldn’t be more grateful. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
— Guy and Kim G
India, I just wanted to say thank you
for your presentation at my dad’s Celebration of Life service. People remarked how they liked the way in which you told P’s story. They loved your look and your beautiful dress too! When I look back on the day, I feel happy with how it all went and your contribution is
a big part of that, you had a very peaceful presence. Thank you again for putting ‘it’ all together.
— Mary W
India delivered a beautiful service for my grandmother. Her approach was incredibly supportive, kind and thoughtful. Myself and my family are so grateful for everything India did for us. Her beautiful eulogy captured my grandmother’s spirit. Thank you Indi x
— Stephanie H
We were incredibly privileged to have had the wonderful Indi lead the service for my niece. She was so approachable, available, graceful, respectful and comforting to us.
My many emails never too much work, and although I hadn’t met her before the day, she picked me out and I felt instantly at ease with her. She led the service beautifully and I couldn’t recommend her highly enough.
Indi sat through our tributes and slide show, smiling with us, shedding a tear with us and laughing at some funny memories of our girl with us too.
You will struggle to find a better funeral celebrant than her.
Thank you Indi.
— Shaz M
India, I would personally like to thank you for the compassion and support you provided to me and my family during this difficult time. Your patience and understanding was a great comfort to me.
— Shirley D
India is such a compassionate soul; not only did she help arrange my Grandma’s funeral service she helped us grieve by wanting to hear my Grandma’s story.
She helped us celebrate my Grandma’s life in the most personal way and we will be forever grateful for that.
India became a part of our family that day.
From the bottom of my family’s heart, thank you. Xx
— Maria G
Mum’s service was made beautiful by you India. We could not have asked for a more caring and compassionate person to conduct Mum’s service and it was with your special touch that made it magical.. You captured the very essence of our Mum in that short time we spoke. It was brilliant. Mum would’ve loved you!
— Jen R
The service and eulogy that India prepared for our dad’s funeral truly made for a special farewell for our dad.
India is such a lovely and genuine person and is incredibly skilled at writing and presenting the story of a persons’ life.
India we are so grateful for all of the effort and hard work you put in to make our dad’s service so lovely and unique.
— Ed and Ally
India, you wrote a very thoughtful, kind and amazing Eulogy and Tribute for my Mum despite never having met her and just describing her from our conversation. You made a special gesture by welcoming the mourners in the German language as my Mum was German.
You are one of the most caring people I have ever met and it uplifted my spirit having you there for my Mother’s celebration of life.
— Angelika F
From the very first meeting, India helped organise the most wonderful service. She helped take the pressure off us and made it unique and special. She took the time to learn about our grandfather and our relationship with him. She is respectful and compassionate. I would highly recommend India!
— Emma M
My family was very privileged to have India May conduct a lovely service for my Oma. Her gentle nature and honest care about making this exactly what we wanted was second to none. From the time she spent with us gaining information on Oma to helping us choose the readings. I would highly recommend India May for anyone who is looking for a celebrant.
— Alison R
I will be forever grateful for the beautiful service India performed on behalf of our precious mother. You don’t get a second chance to get this day right. India listened and helped us to get through this difficult time and honour our mother in the way she deserved. There is no doubt this lovely lady has found her true calling. Our heartfelt thanks India.
— Jeanette C
Thank you so, so much for everything you did both with us and behind the scenes to create a lovely memorial service for my dad. It was a very hard time, but to know that you were coordinating everything was a huge relief.
The way you led the service was just beautiful, we had so many comments afterwards of what an amazing job you had done. It meant so much to have you supporting and guiding us and I can’t thank you enough.
— Rebecca D
India helped my family immensely through the days following our sudden loss. She was kind, gentle and really understanding. She helped us to prepare the perfect service. India is a genuine, compassionate and caring person, and although we are sorry it was under these circumstances, we are really grateful to have had the opportunity to work with her and experience her kindness.
— Kate M
Words cannot express how thankful we are to India May. She was caring and emphatic throughout the whole process and made our family feel at ease. Her thoughtfulness was evident on one of the hardest days of our lives. From the little details to the actual service she was always professional.
— Clarice F
Thank you so much India for the wonderful service that you did for myself and family. It was exceptional, you truly have a calling xxx
— Jenny H
India was a shining light during this difficult time of my step-mother’s passing. Being a blended family I had to consider some very delicate issues while planning this funeral. India, with her calm presence and caring nature provided me with the guidance I needed to complete this journey. Together we were able to select songs, poems and work out an appropriate program to honour this strong woman whose life philosophy was to: “Walk on, walk on with hope in your heart and you’ll never walk alone”. These are words from a song by Elvis Presley, which was played at the start of the service.

Again, thanks to India’s unique skill in finding the most suitable words and delivering these in a positive and uplifting manner we were each completely drawn into the service. Besides songs and words, India also included a candle lighting session which provided each of us an opportunity to directly participate in the service.

I could not have envisaged such a dignified, respectful and serene atmosphere without India’s involvement. She fully understood the complexity of the situation and by her thorough planning, organisation and positivity she took us on a path where we could experience peace and love in these moments.

Thank you India, for helping me see the smiles on the faces of my sunflowers
— Eva S
As we released white balloons into the sky, the sun suddenly burst through the dark winter clouds to bring comfort after a meaningful service conducted by our celebrant India May. India is warm and elegant, and provided us with a service Mum would have loved. In every way Mum got exactly what she wanted.
— Fay J
I would like to thank India for her compassionate and soulful expression of our love and grief at the graveside, and in a memorial service following the passing of my dear mother. India helped us make the decisions in planning Mum’s service with care and wisdom. I am grateful India was there to guide us with her ever joyful attitude, showing us how to celebrate Mum’s life.
— Peter M
I had never lost anyone close to me till I lost my mum last month. Meeting India May was an absolute blessing when it came to coming to terms with losing the person who brought me into the world. She made this experience so easy and did everything to make mum’s funeral a day we will never forget for the better. The moment we met her as a family I knew we had the right lady for the job. So many compliments after mum’s funeral about how lovely she was and what a beautiful service it was!
— Natalie O

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